| Re: Ok, A guy question please..... |
Subject: Re: Ok, A guy question please..... by CorvetteBob on 2009/12/14 16:55:48 I'm gonna get flamed pretty bad here, but I was once one of the afore-mentioned bottom feeders. As for me, it kinda went like this; In high school, I was continuously told,"let's be friends." The week I graduated I met a great girl and we dated all summer and into her freshman year at college. Then I was told, "Let's be friends." No one's fault, just the way it was. When I went thru college, I got so many of the,"let's be friends" statements, that I made the decision that I had to be like the jerks to be interesting. So, I became one, and proceded to pork nearly every girl I could. This became a learned behavior for me that lasted to the extent that I couldn't understand or realise when someone genuinely cared about me. That behavior even extended into the dating relationship I had with my wife. Twice. I eventually settled down and got with the program and have been faithful since. At this point I'm not gonna wreck the life we have together for some strange. My point is this, some guys just don't know any better, some can't understand that someone could care about them. Some guys just need to feed their ego thru "the chase." Some are just slime. Say what you want, but that's who I was. |
