| Re: Ok, A guy question please..... |
Subject: Re: Ok, A guy question please..... by vetteblondie on 2009/12/15 15:38:06 I guess you'd call me 'jaded' after all this. And yes, I've dated some from Memphis, they aren't any better. I think I just need to get this house sold and simply move off to where I know no one and start all over. And, this nut had the nerve to bitch at me for calling him out on his cheating! WTF! He's just mad I was smart enough to catch him. I have noticed a pattern in recent years and it always happens the same way, so when I start seeing clues I start paying attention and in no time, he will usually rat himself out without realizing it. I'd rather be alone and have my sanity. Relationships simply aren't worth it. The difference between him and me is simple: If I am seeing you and care about you and get other 'offers' I say "no thanks, I'm seeing someone" and go on. If I get unhappy I'll let you know, otherwise assume things are fine. I will leave you before I cheat on you. I have more respect for others than that. Him: Will say he cares bout you and all that baloney, but a slug slides by and instead of having respect for who's putting a roof over his head and saying 'no thanks' he chats up, gets interested, then looks for ways to pick a fight with me and make it look like it's all my fault so he has a way out. What a p&ssy.... I try to make sure I keep my guy happy in all respects, but yes some people change and unless you change together or work it out, it won't work. All good relationships take effort, but I'll be dam&ed if I be a provider for ANY man especially when he makes more than me only to be taken advantage of. Jeff - I agree with your rant - seems same on my end - when a guy figures out I don't question things, and pay my own bills and car and mess, he sees a gold mine and moves in for what he can get for free and use me. This dood made $20k more than me with only a couple of credit card bills. Yet was at my place and did not do crap or pay crap to help out. |
