or are all women out of their minds. the girl i have been talking to for a while lived in ny and wanted to move down here. she got a job and is trying to set herself up here. she has been living with me and i have helped her move out of her old place, put it all in storage(all by myself), help her with a few bills, let her stay at my place rent free. i feel like i am going well out of my way to help this person out and i got her into this sales job with me as a parttime job on top of her 9-5 and its gone nuts from there.. she is freaking the fuck out at the drop of a hat. pissing and moaning about EVERYTHING and saying i don't do shit for her. i am running all day and night and barely keeping my head above water now i have her to deal with and her bs. she started shit in the car and i told her to just shut up. so she slaps me in the face so i threw our dinner out on the ground and said if she ever did that shit again she was out.. i feel like the more i do the less its appreciated and that she is seriously overreacting and just being a bitch.. what should i do to deal with this.

she is stressing out. too muich going on too fast and doesn't know how to deal with it.

There is just enough information there for me to say, What do you think you should do? Does this relationship look like it has a future? Is this the woman of your dreams or your nightmares? You must be on solid ground before you can offer to help others. Even then sometimes the best help you can offer is to just listen. Are you ready to handle the stresses and strains that come with a long term relationship? If you are than there may be rewards in your future. If not, it may be time to just step away.

Any comment given by me is solely given to provoke thought. I am not a clinician nor trained in fields related to mental health or relationship issues. Listening to me is like bringing your Corvette to a bicycle mechanic for needed repairs.

Quote: this is exactly what i am thinking.. i know i am not perfect but its ridiculous. the sales thing is getting to her.. drama back home.. i am getting 100% of the venting and aggression..

and the kitten just had a seizure. its like 2 months old. she just fed him a bit of wet food about an hour ago. of course she doesn't tell me till 10 minutes after it all happens.

You need to get counseling from CusinartVette.

He's got lots of experience with this stuff....

Are you tapping it?

Still not worth it.

But I'm guessing if the answer was that easy, you wouldn't be asking!

Some people just love to live in crisis, one crisis after another, repeat. Lifes too short. Make some changes.

Two Words... Move On. It probably won't get better.

Find a cougar.

A lot of fish in the sea, no matter what they are all a little crazy,married twice

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That is exactly why I cannot tolerate DAMNYANKEES.

Present company excluded of course.

Most relationships start great and turn to crap. This is starting as crap and you think it's gonna be great? Find a new broad.

Matthew